the recent passing of my former Principal - Earnest Lau - has given me pause for some circumspection.
Such was Mr Lau's stature among so many generations of the Anglo-Chinese School (ACS) family that his passing in our present socio-cultural milieu has resulted in a phenomenon that i've not personally observed before - the distribution of the collective grieving process over social media.
not to sound too much like a digital non-native, but it's been interesting for me to see how my cohort of ACSians has used Facebook as a collective platform for us to come together across time and space to remember the man who - in ways which we're yet to discover, i'm sure - has influenced - and inspired - each of us, to be the men we are today.
i hate to admit it, but i don't have any specific memory of Mr Lau. yes, i remember his voice - which was a unique amalgam of authority and avuncluarism, i remember his bearing - upright by all definitions of the word, but is there one enduring memory of him, for me? i struggle to answer in the affirmative.
maybe i just wasn't the type who got called to the Principal's office very often :-P (there was just this one time when i was twelve-years-old and just discovering aspects about my sexuality (although i didn't know it at that time, of course), and i was being bullied in class by the person sitting next to me (he was basically making my life a living hell, which was a bit awkward seeing that i was the Class Monitor). we did go to the Principal's office then, but mainly because mum saw fit to step in :-P
and for those of you reading this - yes, It _Does_ indeed Get Better, so hold on to life!
:-)
other than that, as an adolescent growing up in the 1980s, several ages before Twitter, YouTube and the iOS. life was glorious, it was sweet, there were some great friends to be made, and the music (like music generally tends to do) defined our generation.
as i write this, i'm in Singapore Airlines Airbus A380 9V-SKJ flying home from Zürich. For once, i'm forgoing the inflight movie-selection, and going old-tech with just audio-tracks instead. The Krisworld system has very kindly seen fit to populate its on-demand jukebox with UK chart toppers from 1961 to the present day, but, as i write my personal homage to Earnest Lau, i am of course listening to the UK hits of the 1980s.
Those were some truly vintage years - 1984 for one (when i was sixteen), with Do They Know It's Christmas?, Relax, Two Tribes, Careless Whisper, Everything She Wants, Agadoo, and Ghostbusters, and the following year with I Know Him So Well, 19, A Good Heart, and Take On Me.
so…
i'm not sure how much of a fan of UK chart hits from the 1980s Mr Lau was (somehow i think the answer is "not much"), but from one child of that era - from one of the countless boys who passed through the school's portals on his Watch, here's to you, SIR.
may the optimism of the era - as reflected in its music - continue to inspire this generation of your students to continue - in our own ways - the work that you helped us start.
i don't know why i'm tearing up, but i am.
Thank you, Mr Lau SIR. May your soul find its rest in His everlasting arms.